Two days back, I was thinking about the Aliens about whom everyone is talking about.. They were visible in ths and that part of the world.
So many questions in my mind!
1) Are they really coming to earth ?
2) Do they come here for knowing the secrets of the earth?
3) Whether the efforts of Scientists to talk with Aliens will work?
4) Are we unnecessarily worrying about them and simply wasting money in finding who they really are!!!
and finally..
5) Are the Aliens ROBOTS!!!!!!!!!
Impact of Robot movie :)
Tuesday, October 5, 2010
Monday, November 16, 2009
Monday, October 19, 2009
Reservation for OC
Here is a notification:
Openings:
(Ref.No.F.1/117/2009-R-I) Seven Assistant Professors(Cardiology), Ministry of Health and Family Welfare, Central Health Service(Teaching Specialist Sub-cadre). Out of seven posts, two posts are reserved for SC, one post is reserved for ST & three posts are reserved for OBC candidates.
What is left my friends.. One post.. For which everyone is competing ...
Suppose there are 100 posts. Now the question is: Whether a OC male person with 20 rank gets a seat from 100 posts? Then the answer will be big "NO".
Why?
50% reservations for SC,ST and BC
5% minority reservations
33% Ladies reservation
And the remaining seats come under so called "Open Category". Generally in the counselling what happens is Open Category is filled first then they will fill for the Reservation category!!!!
This is utter nonsense according to me...
According to law all the reservations should not exceed more than 50%. But slowly for their own benefits politicians are increasing the reservation percentage in most of the states.
And what is happening is people are utilizing the reservation category and the toppers of that particular category are competiting in the Open Category(Which is already reduced).
Why a state first rank holder should not utilize the reservation seat if he has it? Why he goes for a open seat?
Nowadays what is happening is OC people are becoming the real minority section.
My anguish is ...
When there are some 20 seats in Open Category. A OC person with 21 rank will not get a seat if 20 reservation category people are there infront of him!
Think of it! Do you think this is a fair thing...
What is the solution for this?
Few people would say reservation based on financial status. I feel to make this happen it will take atleast one more generation time. Is it really possible in these times where people will produce certificates overnight stating their finacial income per year is 10000 per annum.
What i feel is.. The solution for this is .. "There should not be any open category" All 100% posts should be reserved for all the sections of the people. And in that way there should be reservation for OC also with some 10 to 20% reservation.
Openings:
(Ref.No.F.1/117/2009-R-I) Seven Assistant Professors(Cardiology), Ministry of Health and Family Welfare, Central Health Service(Teaching Specialist Sub-cadre). Out of seven posts, two posts are reserved for SC, one post is reserved for ST & three posts are reserved for OBC candidates.
What is left my friends.. One post.. For which everyone is competing ...
Suppose there are 100 posts. Now the question is: Whether a OC male person with 20 rank gets a seat from 100 posts? Then the answer will be big "NO".
Why?
50% reservations for SC,ST and BC
5% minority reservations
33% Ladies reservation
And the remaining seats come under so called "Open Category". Generally in the counselling what happens is Open Category is filled first then they will fill for the Reservation category!!!!
This is utter nonsense according to me...
According to law all the reservations should not exceed more than 50%. But slowly for their own benefits politicians are increasing the reservation percentage in most of the states.
And what is happening is people are utilizing the reservation category and the toppers of that particular category are competiting in the Open Category(Which is already reduced).
Why a state first rank holder should not utilize the reservation seat if he has it? Why he goes for a open seat?
Nowadays what is happening is OC people are becoming the real minority section.
My anguish is ...
When there are some 20 seats in Open Category. A OC person with 21 rank will not get a seat if 20 reservation category people are there infront of him!
Think of it! Do you think this is a fair thing...
What is the solution for this?
Few people would say reservation based on financial status. I feel to make this happen it will take atleast one more generation time. Is it really possible in these times where people will produce certificates overnight stating their finacial income per year is 10000 per annum.
What i feel is.. The solution for this is .. "There should not be any open category" All 100% posts should be reserved for all the sections of the people. And in that way there should be reservation for OC also with some 10 to 20% reservation.
Monday, July 6, 2009
Roddick lost but won so many fans ...
It was just before start of the match, Mr. Amritraj was saying that Roddick has to play his life's best tennis to beat Federer. I think he really played his best but God thought he was an inch away, he really missed a whisker...
He fought like a Gladiator, a human machine which is not at all tiring after hitting the serves at 140+ mph. His forehand was as usual the best and he improved his backhand shots to a great extent. Played some good volley tennis, slicing the ball, was willing to take risks and was matching Federer in every shot.
Important thing is that he fought the fifth set from behind (he was serving second in the fifth set). And serving 14 games without allowing Federer to break his serve amid high tension and loud noise from the crowd is a true fighting spirit. Federer could not able to break his serve for 31 consecutive games whereas Roddick broke Federer's serve twice in the match. I agree he lost the serve at the crucial juncture but as Federer mentioned Tennis is really a crazy game, on a day even if you are playing the best tennis one mistake can cost you the match, that is what exactly happened with the Roddick.
Of course i would say he faltered in 2 instances, one is in the second set tie breaker and the last game which he lost.
And what was very emotional to see was the way he was controlling his emotions at post-match presentation. Hey Roddick you may lost this match but you really won so many hearts and fans. All the best for the US Open.....
He fought like a Gladiator, a human machine which is not at all tiring after hitting the serves at 140+ mph. His forehand was as usual the best and he improved his backhand shots to a great extent. Played some good volley tennis, slicing the ball, was willing to take risks and was matching Federer in every shot.
Important thing is that he fought the fifth set from behind (he was serving second in the fifth set). And serving 14 games without allowing Federer to break his serve amid high tension and loud noise from the crowd is a true fighting spirit. Federer could not able to break his serve for 31 consecutive games whereas Roddick broke Federer's serve twice in the match. I agree he lost the serve at the crucial juncture but as Federer mentioned Tennis is really a crazy game, on a day even if you are playing the best tennis one mistake can cost you the match, that is what exactly happened with the Roddick.
Of course i would say he faltered in 2 instances, one is in the second set tie breaker and the last game which he lost.
And what was very emotional to see was the way he was controlling his emotions at post-match presentation. Hey Roddick you may lost this match but you really won so many hearts and fans. All the best for the US Open.....
Monday, June 29, 2009
Hunger and Anger
It is 2 years now that i have joined this company. Sometimes loads of work and sometimes no work at all.
After the hectic schedule in office usually i used to reach home in between 8 to 10 PM. At times i used to eat something in the office canteen or used to eat 'Gup-Chup' on the way to home. Everything used to be fine these days.
The problem is when you reach your home without eating anything and you are very hungry..
Let me tell what happened yesterday...
I went to home, opened the gate and sat in a chair and was trying to remove my shoes, one shoe came out nicely and the other shoe lace is not coming.. I forcibly removed it without loosening the lace.
Throwed my ID card and the wallet in the shelf, washed my face and sat in a chair infront of the television and was waiting my mother to serve the food. Sometimes I used to eat myself and sometimes my mother used to feed me. It happened differently yesterday..
She was very happy yesterday as my uncle (my mom's brother) came yesterday and she was telling about them and there family. I was irritated and yelled at her saying i am hungry. She was silent for few minutes and then served me the food. I ate nicely then after half an hour or so i made her laugh with my stupid jokes. It was all fine afterwards.
This is the incident which made me write this. When i had something in my stomach i used to behave nicely but when i am hungry i am shouting without any control over me.
Hmmm...
Hunger = Anger =madness = loss of patience..
So what i understood is when you are really very hungry then we should eat something and go to home or else you should be double sure that you should not loose your patience after reaching home..
Wednesday, June 10, 2009
My Fantasies
Here again i want to write what i feel is... and here i want to write my fantasies..
1) From childhood days i used to have a feeling that whether really i will be born again after the death.
Hmmm....Will i born again? Do really god exists?
I feel like I will born again and god really exists. Some people and history says that there are 7 lifes for a human being and there is also saying that there will be 6 other persons who are alike me. So where are this 6 other people who resemble me. People also say there is a god within you. Important lines which always go through my mind are..
Do I take birth again?
6 persons just like me...
7 lifes
God .. who is he .. where he stays?
Universe... A Sun and 9 planets revolving around it. Life is there on 7 planets of this universe. Right from earth to Pluto, 7 planets on which life exists. And on every planet there are equal number of people living. And each person on one planet has a resemblance on all the other planets. So there are totally 7 persons who are alike.
When we are living on earth the people who are living on the Mars (the planet next to us ) are the Gods to us. So Ram, Seetha, Brahma, Allah, Jesus, etc are now living on Mars. In the same way there are Gods* to our Gods** who are living on the planet next to Mars i.e., Jupiter.
And a photo copy of you on other planet is a God to you.
That means we have 7 births and each birth on 7 different planets from Earth to Pluto. So we will born again on Mars once we die on Earth. So guys hopefully we will have fun in Mars too.
2) Another one..
When I do something wrong will i be really punished? Where is Hell and where is the Heaven? Do they really exists?
Definitely we should be getting these words Hell and Heaven from ancient days.
It was very long back when there were only five people living in this world. Out of five, four regularly used to go to hunting and collect the food. And the fifth person not used to go for hunting and used to stole the food the other four has collected. It used to happen quite often in the same way.
The first four persons got very irritated that the fifth person is not putting his effort to collect the food. So from the four of them, one was very clever and he opted to change this fifth person. What the clever dude did is he said there are two places to where we all go after we die. One is hell and another is heaven. If you donot put any effort in collecting the food and stole the food we have collected then you will be going to hell where you will be punished for the wrong things you have did and those who work hard they will be going to heaven.
Hmmm... It started this way and we are believing Hell and Heaven. We dont know guys, may be people who do good will be going to hell and others will be going to heaven. So moral is dont be too good and generous :)
1) From childhood days i used to have a feeling that whether really i will be born again after the death.
Hmmm....Will i born again? Do really god exists?
I feel like I will born again and god really exists. Some people and history says that there are 7 lifes for a human being and there is also saying that there will be 6 other persons who are alike me. So where are this 6 other people who resemble me. People also say there is a god within you. Important lines which always go through my mind are..
Do I take birth again?
6 persons just like me...
7 lifes
God .. who is he .. where he stays?
Universe... A Sun and 9 planets revolving around it. Life is there on 7 planets of this universe. Right from earth to Pluto, 7 planets on which life exists. And on every planet there are equal number of people living. And each person on one planet has a resemblance on all the other planets. So there are totally 7 persons who are alike.
When we are living on earth the people who are living on the Mars (the planet next to us ) are the Gods to us. So Ram, Seetha, Brahma, Allah, Jesus, etc are now living on Mars. In the same way there are Gods* to our Gods** who are living on the planet next to Mars i.e., Jupiter.
And a photo copy of you on other planet is a God to you.
That means we have 7 births and each birth on 7 different planets from Earth to Pluto. So we will born again on Mars once we die on Earth. So guys hopefully we will have fun in Mars too.
2) Another one..
When I do something wrong will i be really punished? Where is Hell and where is the Heaven? Do they really exists?
Definitely we should be getting these words Hell and Heaven from ancient days.
It was very long back when there were only five people living in this world. Out of five, four regularly used to go to hunting and collect the food. And the fifth person not used to go for hunting and used to stole the food the other four has collected. It used to happen quite often in the same way.
The first four persons got very irritated that the fifth person is not putting his effort to collect the food. So from the four of them, one was very clever and he opted to change this fifth person. What the clever dude did is he said there are two places to where we all go after we die. One is hell and another is heaven. If you donot put any effort in collecting the food and stole the food we have collected then you will be going to hell where you will be punished for the wrong things you have did and those who work hard they will be going to heaven.
Hmmm... It started this way and we are believing Hell and Heaven. We dont know guys, may be people who do good will be going to hell and others will be going to heaven. So moral is dont be too good and generous :)
Tuesday, January 27, 2009
How B Tech exam preparation goes?
Our Exam Preparation starts a week before the examination :) What we do a week before?
It was 6'o clock in the evening, Rajesh, Chaitanya and me were chit chatting near my house.
Rajesh: "Exams are a just a week away".
Chaitanya: "Shall we go to Koti".
Me: "Ya.. Its better to go now.."
We boarded a bus to koti and went straight to "Vani Book Centre", where we generally buy the books. We used to get the books relatively at low cost in this book centre, thanks to Rajesh for his good relationship with the shopkeeper. We asked for a Book and shopkeeper said "No Stock, new stock will come after two days". Rajesh asked to keep 3 books aside for us and call us when the new stock arrives. He said "Ok". Which book we were asking for?
Of course we were asking for "SPECTRUM ALL IN ONE". Without which we would have not cleared our B Tech subjects. Two days after that day we had our bible in our hands.
What next? Tear It Down!
Exactly we whittled down it to subjectwise. Rajesh went a step ahead and he further divided each subject to unitwise. So five parts for a subject. (Our major work is done.)
Here we thought we will start studying from tomorrow. But we started just before the exam. Next day is the exam. we got a call from vijay.
Vijay- "Hi ra, All in One Konnara"
(TK and me) - "konnamu ra"
Vijay- "Which Text book u have"
(TK and me)- "Text book aa..!!! Chaitanya laughing madly :)"
Vijay- "Arey ma intiki randi ra kalisi chaduvudam.. "
(TK and me)- "OK"
We went to vijay's house. It was 9 in the night. By that time he was watching TV and he did not had his dinner till that time. We went into his room. Chaitanya switched on the computer and started playing some songs. After Vijay had completed his dinner, he came to us. Atlast we thought of studying at 10 PM.
Vijay- "Arey emaina chadivara ra"
Sudheer- "chaitu gadu 1 unit complete chesadu ra.."
Chaitanya- "Arey ee saale gadu complete chesi nannu antunadu ra.."
In this way we pulled each others leg for a while (Frankly speaking i used to study a bit before itself :)..)
Me and chaitanya had first part of "All in one". Chaitanya analysed patern of exam papers and generally he used to come up with a good strategy.
Chaitanya- "Arey from 1 and 3 units, 4 questions will come. And from 5 unit, 1 question will come. I will study only these 3 units. Ofcourse sudheer gadithe anni chaduvuthadanuko!!!! "
Sudheer- "Arey nenu 3 units kuda chaduvuthano ledo ra.."
From here onwards the heat of the examination starts. We dont know anything till now and only one night in our hand. We used to discuss the topics and study sinceirely for 3-4 hours and then we used to sleep. So we used to complete 1 or sometimes 2 units till that time.
And on the exam day we study the other one chapter in travelling. So hardly the total questions we used to study for any exam will range from 35-50 questions from all the units. We get that figure because we used to study only the last years questions.
After this rigoruoussssssss preparation we used to sit for exam. And all of us used to get passed and sometimes we used to get good marks.
All this happened with the help and cooperation of "Spectrum All in One" and JNTU paper setters. Thanks to them.
It was 6'o clock in the evening, Rajesh, Chaitanya and me were chit chatting near my house.
Rajesh: "Exams are a just a week away".
Chaitanya: "Shall we go to Koti".
Me: "Ya.. Its better to go now.."
We boarded a bus to koti and went straight to "Vani Book Centre", where we generally buy the books. We used to get the books relatively at low cost in this book centre, thanks to Rajesh for his good relationship with the shopkeeper. We asked for a Book and shopkeeper said "No Stock, new stock will come after two days". Rajesh asked to keep 3 books aside for us and call us when the new stock arrives. He said "Ok". Which book we were asking for?
Of course we were asking for "SPECTRUM ALL IN ONE". Without which we would have not cleared our B Tech subjects. Two days after that day we had our bible in our hands.
What next? Tear It Down!
Exactly we whittled down it to subjectwise. Rajesh went a step ahead and he further divided each subject to unitwise. So five parts for a subject. (Our major work is done.)
Here we thought we will start studying from tomorrow. But we started just before the exam. Next day is the exam. we got a call from vijay.
Vijay- "Hi ra, All in One Konnara"
(TK and me) - "konnamu ra"
Vijay- "Which Text book u have"
(TK and me)- "Text book aa..!!! Chaitanya laughing madly :)"
Vijay- "Arey ma intiki randi ra kalisi chaduvudam.. "
(TK and me)- "OK"
We went to vijay's house. It was 9 in the night. By that time he was watching TV and he did not had his dinner till that time. We went into his room. Chaitanya switched on the computer and started playing some songs. After Vijay had completed his dinner, he came to us. Atlast we thought of studying at 10 PM.
Vijay- "Arey emaina chadivara ra"
Sudheer- "chaitu gadu 1 unit complete chesadu ra.."
Chaitanya- "Arey ee saale gadu complete chesi nannu antunadu ra.."
In this way we pulled each others leg for a while (Frankly speaking i used to study a bit before itself :)..)
Me and chaitanya had first part of "All in one". Chaitanya analysed patern of exam papers and generally he used to come up with a good strategy.
Chaitanya- "Arey from 1 and 3 units, 4 questions will come. And from 5 unit, 1 question will come. I will study only these 3 units. Ofcourse sudheer gadithe anni chaduvuthadanuko!!!! "
Sudheer- "Arey nenu 3 units kuda chaduvuthano ledo ra.."
From here onwards the heat of the examination starts. We dont know anything till now and only one night in our hand. We used to discuss the topics and study sinceirely for 3-4 hours and then we used to sleep. So we used to complete 1 or sometimes 2 units till that time.
And on the exam day we study the other one chapter in travelling. So hardly the total questions we used to study for any exam will range from 35-50 questions from all the units. We get that figure because we used to study only the last years questions.
After this rigoruoussssssss preparation we used to sit for exam. And all of us used to get passed and sometimes we used to get good marks.
All this happened with the help and cooperation of "Spectrum All in One" and JNTU paper setters. Thanks to them.
Monday, December 1, 2008
Over-Confidence !!!
On a fine day, a student who is very good at current affairs went to his school. Teacher asked the students - "Children, Do anyone know who is our Finance Minister?". He immediately raised his hand and said "Our Finance Minister is Mr. Chidambaram". Teacher said "NO" and was looking at any other answers. Unfortunately there were none. Student was confident, when the same answer was given two days back to his father, he said it is correct! All of a certain how he can change? (But poor guy doesnt know that terrorists made it possible !! ) And we all know children are generally stubborn, He once again said it is Chidambaram. Teacher said "Dont be Over Confident". Then Teacher revealed that the correct answer is "Mr. Manmohan Singh". But the student was unhappy. He was thinking "Was he really Over Confident?" And when the next day teacher asked "Who is our Petroleum Minister?". He did not responded to the question thinking that even he might have changed recently!! Thereafter he did not responded to any questions in the classroom. So what happened now? A student with some good confidence is turned out to be a student with low confidence with one word "Over Confidence". what is the meaning of Over Confidence? People say someone is confident when he is doing a good job and at last if he fails to deliver at the end, the same People call it as over confidence. When i say happening of task "X" is certain and probability of my statement becoming true is 50%. Can someone tell me whether i am confident or not? Ok atleast can someone tell me what percent the probability should be to say that "I am confident". Obviously no one can tell the exact answer. Therefore there is no demarcation between Confidence and Over Confidence. Then better we can stop using the word Over Confidence. English bashalo nachani oke oka padham "Over Confidence"
Sunday, November 23, 2008
Which is the turning point !!!!!!
I was in tenth class. Seven periods a day; six school going days in a week. One fine(not really) day my biology teacher came to our class. As usually the class used to maintain pin drop silence not even once in a while. Everyone is busy in their work. Teacher came and stood silent on the stage. Slowly everyone became attentive and slowly every one stopped talking. At the end of that transformation, a noise was clearly heard "PO BEY..", yes that was my friend's voice who unnoticed the teacher and continued his splendid form(chatting with others). "Stand Up"! she yelled at him. "Is this a class or a Fish market !! "See students, this is the turning point of your life. You might have enjoyed a lot till now. But this is the time you have to stop all that and concentrate on your studies. If you dont get good marks in the tenth class. You will not be good for anything in this world".
This continued for several times from different teachers. All this might be infused some interest in me and passed the tenth standard with not very bad marks . Guys please let me say "I passed in flying colours". That really feels good. After the exams I enjoyed a lot with my friends for fifteen days i guess. Then there was the search for a good college . My cousin got a seat in a Junior college. I dint get a seat over there. Yep i approached them a bit late and that college was the top college at that time. However with some recommendation i got into it unfortunately. First time staying away from my parents.
Now every lecturer started to say this is the real turning point. Really??? Ok. Screening tests started in the college. At the end of the D-day i felt these are bit tougher than EAMCET. I failed to perform in the screening tests. So they decided i was fit to right only EAMCET. No IIT entrance. I feel these two years are worst part of my life with no pleasure and time to relax.
Next into Engineering. Professors started saying "the first two years are important, even GATE syllabus is mostly covered in these two years. So concentrate from the beginning. Now you have worked hard and secured a seat. This four years are going to be crucial and turning point of your life". Things were very nice in the first two years because i was out of a central jail. And then in the third and fourth year some started going for GATE and some for GRE. Most of my class students settled in a good way.
And i joined a company(name not to be disclosed). Hoping for fun, frolic, and some work. It is happening the other way with lot of work and less enjoyment. Unfortunately adding to my misery is this economic slowdown. Yesterday me and my colleague were having a cup of coffee. Here entered my Manager.
M(Manager)-"HI"
We(my friend and me)- "HI"
M-"How is the work going?"
We - "Fine".
M-"See this is a very good project. And initially in these first two years you have to show the proactiveness and grasp and as much as you can. You can see even the market is not good. This is the turning point of your career."
My colleague said "yes". And in this frustration I am writing this article. I really dont understand how many more turning points are going to come in my life!!! .
This continued for several times from different teachers. All this might be infused some interest in me and passed the tenth standard with not very bad marks . Guys please let me say "I passed in flying colours". That really feels good. After the exams I enjoyed a lot with my friends for fifteen days i guess. Then there was the search for a good college . My cousin got a seat in a Junior college. I dint get a seat over there. Yep i approached them a bit late and that college was the top college at that time. However with some recommendation i got into it unfortunately. First time staying away from my parents.
Now every lecturer started to say this is the real turning point. Really??? Ok. Screening tests started in the college. At the end of the D-day i felt these are bit tougher than EAMCET. I failed to perform in the screening tests. So they decided i was fit to right only EAMCET. No IIT entrance. I feel these two years are worst part of my life with no pleasure and time to relax.
Next into Engineering. Professors started saying "the first two years are important, even GATE syllabus is mostly covered in these two years. So concentrate from the beginning. Now you have worked hard and secured a seat. This four years are going to be crucial and turning point of your life". Things were very nice in the first two years because i was out of a central jail. And then in the third and fourth year some started going for GATE and some for GRE. Most of my class students settled in a good way.
And i joined a company(name not to be disclosed). Hoping for fun, frolic, and some work. It is happening the other way with lot of work and less enjoyment. Unfortunately adding to my misery is this economic slowdown. Yesterday me and my colleague were having a cup of coffee. Here entered my Manager.
M(Manager)-"HI"
We(my friend and me)- "HI"
M-"How is the work going?"
We - "Fine".
M-"See this is a very good project. And initially in these first two years you have to show the proactiveness and grasp and as much as you can. You can see even the market is not good. This is the turning point of your career."
My colleague said "yes". And in this frustration I am writing this article. I really dont understand how many more turning points are going to come in my life!!! .
Wednesday, November 19, 2008
Love marriage or Arranged marriage !!!
The topic seems to be old, quite often discussed among people but here i want to write what i feel ...
Yep first of all do we need to be married ! Why the hell we want to spoil our good bachelor life during which we will have great freedom of coming late to home(most of us), Why the need to spend long hours in shopping malls to buy a single saree! Why to have unnecesssary arguements with spouse! People who are thinking in the above way definitely dislike marriages. But do all these things definitely happen after marriage. May be your spouse is also interseted in going second show movies.. So you found a new friend who can accompany you to movies. May be your spouse is also not interested in shopping! May be your spouse is very cooperative and can understand you well and clear your problems rather than starting unnecessary arguements! And may be you will be very happy with her after marriage!
Hmmm... But every statement started with "May be". So all these things to really happen do we need to opt for love or arranged marriage? Is there any certainity that Arranged or Love marriage will assure you a happy life?
When you know your spouse in before and if you already know her likes and dislikes, definitely going to help for a peaceful and happy life. But is it necessary to know your "would-be" in before? And if not is that going to ruin your life. I dont think so. Most of our parents are married in that way and even then they all are leading a happy life. Of course that was made possible with their due respect to the marriage. We can love and understand each other even after marriage. To understand someone what you need is just some patience and in somecases you need a bit more. But ultimately you can understand anyone.
Why are we making a relationship with someone by taking a lot of pain in understanding? Instead we can know that person in before and then we can decide on marriage? Definitely if you know the person in before you already should have put some effort in knowing his/her tastes.!And that definitely will help in taking a decision to marry someone or not. But can anyone guarantee me that knowing someone in before marriage, will lead to a happy life. There will be some differences obviously. God may have made 7 persons alike but no two persons in this world behave the same way. So anyways you need to comprimise at times. So why to make your parents unhappy by going against their opinion!!!
A person typically lives twenty to twenty five years in every way dependent on parents. I feel that is the half of the life. The next half people gradually people learn to be independent. Of course there is something to be learnt from elders in every part of life. And second half you need a partner who can share your feelings, emotions, sorrows, and happiness.
Confused!!! Why I am I supporting two sides?? Friends here are my concluding lines ...
To love and marry is really good but make your parents understand that she is the right person for you. Most of the people say they do not understand it!!! Guys if you really think you gave your 100 percent and still they persist to not marry someone then you can take the decision. But 100 percent effort is important. And for me those who are caring for you all these years will definitely understand if you put it in the right way.
Love or arranged marriages? I go for love and arranged marriages.
Most people say that now-a-days people are more inclined to western culture. And some say the older days were better. I feel the present days are better where you need to give a reason to your parents for marrying someone.So there is the freedom to choose but there is responsibilty with it. And also there is "the fear of the society". What these people think? etc etc...So people should find the right person to marry and they should prove that she is the correct choice.
Yep first of all do we need to be married ! Why the hell we want to spoil our good bachelor life during which we will have great freedom of coming late to home(most of us), Why the need to spend long hours in shopping malls to buy a single saree! Why to have unnecesssary arguements with spouse! People who are thinking in the above way definitely dislike marriages. But do all these things definitely happen after marriage. May be your spouse is also interseted in going second show movies.. So you found a new friend who can accompany you to movies. May be your spouse is also not interested in shopping! May be your spouse is very cooperative and can understand you well and clear your problems rather than starting unnecessary arguements! And may be you will be very happy with her after marriage!
Hmmm... But every statement started with "May be". So all these things to really happen do we need to opt for love or arranged marriage? Is there any certainity that Arranged or Love marriage will assure you a happy life?
When you know your spouse in before and if you already know her likes and dislikes, definitely going to help for a peaceful and happy life. But is it necessary to know your "would-be" in before? And if not is that going to ruin your life. I dont think so. Most of our parents are married in that way and even then they all are leading a happy life. Of course that was made possible with their due respect to the marriage. We can love and understand each other even after marriage. To understand someone what you need is just some patience and in somecases you need a bit more. But ultimately you can understand anyone.
Why are we making a relationship with someone by taking a lot of pain in understanding? Instead we can know that person in before and then we can decide on marriage? Definitely if you know the person in before you already should have put some effort in knowing his/her tastes.!And that definitely will help in taking a decision to marry someone or not. But can anyone guarantee me that knowing someone in before marriage, will lead to a happy life. There will be some differences obviously. God may have made 7 persons alike but no two persons in this world behave the same way. So anyways you need to comprimise at times. So why to make your parents unhappy by going against their opinion!!!
A person typically lives twenty to twenty five years in every way dependent on parents. I feel that is the half of the life. The next half people gradually people learn to be independent. Of course there is something to be learnt from elders in every part of life. And second half you need a partner who can share your feelings, emotions, sorrows, and happiness.
Confused!!! Why I am I supporting two sides?? Friends here are my concluding lines ...
To love and marry is really good but make your parents understand that she is the right person for you. Most of the people say they do not understand it!!! Guys if you really think you gave your 100 percent and still they persist to not marry someone then you can take the decision. But 100 percent effort is important. And for me those who are caring for you all these years will definitely understand if you put it in the right way.
Love or arranged marriages? I go for love and arranged marriages.
Most people say that now-a-days people are more inclined to western culture. And some say the older days were better. I feel the present days are better where you need to give a reason to your parents for marrying someone.So there is the freedom to choose but there is responsibilty with it. And also there is "the fear of the society". What these people think? etc etc...So people should find the right person to marry and they should prove that she is the correct choice.
Monday, November 17, 2008
Indian cricket team is showing the signs of becoming a World Champion.
The recent test series win against Australia and a good start in the ODI's aginst England is making me to say this? Or I am being a fan of Indian cricket, excited with the Performance of the team and saying this? I dont know !
But there are definitely some points which i feel are the reason to say that we are showing the signs of winning the next world cup.
1) A good start for any task provides the moral boost and confidence to a team and a Cricket team is no exception to that. The opening pair "Gambhir and Sehwag" are consistently giving a good start to the team and thus giving a very good platform for the middle order players. And the recent run of Gambhir is making me very excited. He already had 1000 runs in his account in this calender year. Hope this form continues !
2) A good middle order. Being a great fan of Rahul Dravid, I never thought that some one will fit into his position. But the youngster's like Rohit Sharma and Suresh Raina are showing good signs of taking his place. Rohit Sharma especially is a person, i guess who has the ability to take Dravid's position.
3) A blend of youth and seniors. With Sachin Tendulkar still scoring good runs, going to play a great role in helping the young talent. Yuvraj singh with more than 200 ODI's is also going to be a crucial player for us. And in bowling we have the experience of Zaheer and some rookies such as RP Singh, Ishanth, Munaf.
4) A great captain. Hmmm.. Everyone performing well is adding to his luck. But definitely he is taking some very good decisions. Lets wait and see how he is going to handle the team in long run, when few people will be out of form.
5) Excellent Bench Strength. This is the basic reason which is making everyone perform their best. Now complacency is not allowed. If R P Singh is not bowling well, we have Munaf, Sreesanth, Balaji, Ashok Dinda an many more and we cannot forget what happened to Robin Uthappa.
So many things... fielding is improved with no one hesitating to dive. Gone are the days when Indians are known running behind the ball. Gone are the days when two wickets fell early, we go into a defence shell. Everyone is fighting for their place in the team. Hope this good performance by the team continues and may be really we emerge as world champions by winning the next world cup.
But there are definitely some points which i feel are the reason to say that we are showing the signs of winning the next world cup.
1) A good start for any task provides the moral boost and confidence to a team and a Cricket team is no exception to that. The opening pair "Gambhir and Sehwag" are consistently giving a good start to the team and thus giving a very good platform for the middle order players. And the recent run of Gambhir is making me very excited. He already had 1000 runs in his account in this calender year. Hope this form continues !
2) A good middle order. Being a great fan of Rahul Dravid, I never thought that some one will fit into his position. But the youngster's like Rohit Sharma and Suresh Raina are showing good signs of taking his place. Rohit Sharma especially is a person, i guess who has the ability to take Dravid's position.
3) A blend of youth and seniors. With Sachin Tendulkar still scoring good runs, going to play a great role in helping the young talent. Yuvraj singh with more than 200 ODI's is also going to be a crucial player for us. And in bowling we have the experience of Zaheer and some rookies such as RP Singh, Ishanth, Munaf.
4) A great captain. Hmmm.. Everyone performing well is adding to his luck. But definitely he is taking some very good decisions. Lets wait and see how he is going to handle the team in long run, when few people will be out of form.
5) Excellent Bench Strength. This is the basic reason which is making everyone perform their best. Now complacency is not allowed. If R P Singh is not bowling well, we have Munaf, Sreesanth, Balaji, Ashok Dinda an many more and we cannot forget what happened to Robin Uthappa.
So many things... fielding is improved with no one hesitating to dive. Gone are the days when Indians are known running behind the ball. Gone are the days when two wickets fell early, we go into a defence shell. Everyone is fighting for their place in the team. Hope this good performance by the team continues and may be really we emerge as world champions by winning the next world cup.
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